Is it possible to know someone, yet at times feel like you don’t? In life, people change! Hopefully for most of us those changes are for the better. As we get older and we have life experiences, those life experiences impact us differently. As a result we are not who we used to be and […]
How Are You Hurting Your Marriage, Because You’ve Been Hurt?
When you get married you make an agreement with your mate, but you also make a contract with God. Part of that contract is to stand on the word of God and fight the right battle. Sometimes when people are hurt (hurting marriage) they lose sight of that contract, and move away from the agreement they made. Most of us […]
How Are Your Past Relationships Complicating Your Future Relationships?
How are your past relationships complicating your future relationships? How does someone become abusive in a relationship? How does a man or a woman develop a pattern of cheating? Why does he or she shutdown when they get angry, unwilling to communicate? When people look for solutions concerning destructive behaviors in relationships; oftentimes they look for those solutions […]
Does Your Man Have Your Back; Does Your Woman Have Yours?
Everyone wants someone in their lives that they can trust; who they feel has their back. An important quality that people overlook in the beginning of many relationships is someone who has their back. What I am talking about is support! Support in doing what is right, support in accomplishing ones goals. This important quality […]
Why There Is Division In Relationships!
Why There Is Division In Relationships! Relationships can be a beautiful thing, but they can also be frustrating. One thing that can be frustrating is when you feel like you are going in a different direction than your partner. A primary cause to division in a relationship is when couples don’t share the same core […]
Ladies: Are you striving to be Someone’s Wife Or Anyone’s Wife?
In a time where social media has become the go-to platform to express an instant thought, phrases like “Waiting on My Boaz” or “Can’t Wait Until I Find My Husband” often pop up on my timeline feed. When you constantly advertise this desire, sometimes what happens is you’ll begin to focus more on trying to […]
Bad thoughts lead to bad feelings lead to bad actions
Why do I say some of the things I say to my mate? Why have my interaction with my mate changed from the early years? This series is based on notes from a married couples Sunday School Class I have taught for more than seven years. The responses to the questions are from people in the class. […]
How to Stop Making Bad Choices in Relationships?
How is it that we know what God wants us to do in relationships, or in the relationship process, but still we don’t do it? We see or feel what we want at the moment, and we go for it! Wanting what God wants isn’t enough. Showing up to church or reading your Bible isn’t […]
Get Out Of The Way!
Almost everyday we look at one of the primary reasons why relationships are so complicated. A mirror! A mirror gives off a reflection of you! That’s right, you are one of the primary reasons why relationships are so complicated. People’s inability to get out of the way and surrender the relationship process to God complicates […]
What Are You Seeking In Relationships?
One of the biggest mistakes people make in a relationship, or in the pursuit of a relationship is having proper priorities. In Matthew 6:33 Jesus tells us seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. This scripture also applies to relationships, and putting God first. How […]