What do you do when you see a flaw in a person or a relationship?

When looking for a possible spouse we often come across concerns about the person or the relationship. These are what some might call red flags. Troubling thoughts, feelings, or flaws that could be problematic to the success of a relationship.

RED FLAGS while dating aren’t something you want to ignore.

There some who in desiring a relationship so badly they over look obvious challenges about a person or the compatibility of them as a couple. Ignoring challenges, doesn’t fix them. They get bigger and bigger often resulting in a cataclysmic ending.

Though RED FLAGS are something we don’t want to ignore, we also want to have a good perspective as how to approach them. Some within relationships can view any indifference as a red flag, leading them to abandon what could be. This too is problematic because “no one” is perfect.

The truth is we all have red flags we bring into relationships.

In this podcast episode we explore Red Flags (troubling concerns, feelings, or flaws). How should you approach red flags while dating? What are the types of concerns you should end the relationship immediately? If you do choose to move forward in a relationship where red flags exist, how should you approach them? This is an extremely important topic on dating and courting, so please share it with a friend.

Hosted by Pastor Brian Wallace and Keonte McDonald

Key Scriptures:

• Matt 7:15-20 “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thornbushes or figs from thistles? Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Therefore by their fruits you will know them.
• Prov. 15:14 The discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouth of a fool feeds on folly.

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